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Finding my “Charlie”

So…as the last post shared – I have a mild obsession with the show Girls and think that Lena Dunham is amazing…BUT…my favorite character on the show is Charlie. Unfortunately, Christopher Abbott (playing Charlie, Marnie’s boyfriend, then ex-boyfriend, and then a possible reconnection) is no longer on the cast and will not appear in Season 3 due to issues with Lena (at least that is was press is saying)…

So I’m bummed out about this – Charlie is adorable, dreamy, and my dream man – and I’ll no longer be able to woo for him during Season 3…so I guess I have to find another dream man.


Which leads me to this – I think I’m finally ready to have a relationship again. Over the past few weeks, it has become apparent that I’m the only single person in my group of friends…(well, except for the two single guys who prefer the random hookups). But I seriously have NO single girl friends and this makes it hard. My one friend who is single is also a mom, so she’s not able to go out with me often, be my shopping buddy, etc…but her and her son are my dinner dates on a frequent basis.

However, I think I’m really ready to get involved with someone who is like Charlie – smart, loyal, honest, and incredibly attractive…and lucky me because I have met someone who fits the above description…just waiting for him to come around and be ready to get involved with someone. … so let’s cross our fingers that this happens in the near future – or I’m going to be back at square one and left to fend for myself.

I’m not good at dating. I can talk to anyone, but I’m always nervous on a guy that I’m attracted to. However, I’m really comfortable with guys I’m not interested in, which then sends them the wrong signal, and I end up having to explain to them, very bluntly, that I AM NOT INTERESTED…and then well, that hurts their feelings, and I’m a bitch, and I’m back to the start again.

Well, here’s for dreaming! Here’s for love. And here’s for loving yourself before you attempt to love someone else.10268524e146389fd4c4f7f4cafe-post

2 thoughts on “Finding my “Charlie”

  1. Hello! 🙂 I accidentally deleted your comment on my instagram, so I just wanted to say thank you, and I am happy you like my blog! You have a beautiful blog yourself 🙂
    Best greetings from Martina

    1. That’s okay!! Thanks for following me back and checking out my blog 🙂 I’m starting to get the hang of it and hopefully will get more posts soon! Thanks again 🙂

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