You Complete Me. Why do you always look for someone else to “complete” ourselves?

I had to say goodbye to someone who swept me off my feet. I fell hard. Very hard. In the best way - the real way - the way that it is healthy to fall. I'm still falling and I'm not holding back. I'm allowing the emotions to churn, and the tears to fall, and … Continue reading You Complete Me. Why do you always look for someone else to “complete” ourselves?

Diggin’ a Ditch: Dave Matthew’s Band: Memories.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O7kEJJ4-_KY Today's daily prompt is about a song that brings back memories. Oh, do I have a million of those. But I chose one, one that brings back good and bad memories. One that comes on when I'm driving and I blast the music, sing along, and always get the lyrics wrong. Listen along to … Continue reading Diggin’ a Ditch: Dave Matthew’s Band: Memories.

And I miss you. Or do I miss how you made me see myself?

I'm pondering some feelings that have been coming up a lot lately. First and foremost, I will declare that I've been single for a year now. I was very close to getting involved with someone, but out of cowardice, I turned my back and ran from the closest thing I've had to romantic love in … Continue reading And I miss you. Or do I miss how you made me see myself?

The words you whispered as you said goodbye.

You told me it was magical. That night we spent together. Do you still remember? It was only weeks ago. But it was only days after that you left, forever. Or what seems like forever. An eternity has passed since you said all those things. All those deep, meaningful things as you hugged me goodbye. … Continue reading The words you whispered as you said goodbye.

OkCupid-ing: Because, well just because.

A few weeks ago, I read a few brilliant blog posts on the Thought Catalog. It inspired me to do something completely out of my comfort zone and, after about 15 minutes of thinking, I made an OKCupid profile. At first, I was like...sure I'll do this and see what was out there...and a week … Continue reading OkCupid-ing: Because, well just because.

And my soul exhaled and I inhaled you: 10 things I want in my next relationship.

As time passes by and we continue on the journey of growth, experiences, and love, we start to learn a lot about who we are, where we are going, and who we want to go there with. Although I am still single ... (the Instagram man was a short-lived, yet beautiful romance...with whom I wish … Continue reading And my soul exhaled and I inhaled you: 10 things I want in my next relationship.

You can’t help how you feel…even if you want to.

It is okay to not always understand how you feel. This may be hard to accept...but I promise, feelings change - that is why they are "feelings". One day, we may be very happy, and the next, we may be sad. Maybe nothing happened in between those 24 hours that made you change, but nevertheless, … Continue reading You can’t help how you feel…even if you want to.

When did you chose to be straight?

Here's another good one - sometimes asking a simple question, giving them back their basic argument, is a good way to open peoples' minds. When did I chose to be straight? I never did. When did I come out and say "hey mom and dad and friends and everyone...I like boys"? Oh...I didn't. This is … Continue reading When did you chose to be straight?