You Complete Me. Why do you always look for someone else to “complete” ourselves?

I had to say goodbye to someone who swept me off my feet. I fell hard. Very hard. In the best way - the real way - the way that it is healthy to fall. I'm still falling and I'm not holding back. I'm allowing the emotions to churn, and the tears to fall, and … Continue reading You Complete Me. Why do you always look for someone else to “complete” ourselves?

In Like a Lion, Out Like a Lamb: Celebrating Ostara

Today is the Spring Equinox. The first day of the season of rebirth, growth, and warmer weather! We start our gardens, planting seeds, and reminiscing about the winter weather. In the Judeo-Christian mindset, we're preparing for Easter and/or Passover, holidays that celebrate certain historical events. In the Pagan mindset, we celebrate Ostara - stemming from … Continue reading In Like a Lion, Out Like a Lamb: Celebrating Ostara

Valentine’s Day: The Best “Worst” Day of the Year

Valentine's Day brings up a lot of memories for me…mostly bad, a few good, and all hilarious. Where do I even start? Perhaps I'll begin at my earliest memory of an "adult" Valentine's Day…and by adult, I actually mean one that I was over the age of 15 and was sexually active. If you are my … Continue reading Valentine’s Day: The Best “Worst” Day of the Year

And I miss you. Or do I miss how you made me see myself?

I'm pondering some feelings that have been coming up a lot lately. First and foremost, I will declare that I've been single for a year now. I was very close to getting involved with someone, but out of cowardice, I turned my back and ran from the closest thing I've had to romantic love in … Continue reading And I miss you. Or do I miss how you made me see myself?

Embed Facebook Post? Testing – Geode Jewelry

I bought this beautiful piece of jewelry from my favorite online store! https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=10200770552647125&set=a.3883549928184.2148332.1261920379&type=1 So, I hope that worked. Geodes are beautiful rock-like (usually volcanic, I believe) structures found around the world. This one is from Brazil. Geodes are said to be holders of energy. I'm not sure which energy this geode holds, but I'm going … Continue reading Embed Facebook Post? Testing – Geode Jewelry

Poetry, pastimes, & finger tattoos.

Warsan Shire, heard of her? If not, definitely make that change. I found her via Pinterest - and after reading through every available piece of work, I've decided I have a new favorite poet. She discusses love, life, relationships, family, feminism, society, politics, pain, and much more. One of the most important parts of poetry … Continue reading Poetry, pastimes, & finger tattoos.

The words you whispered as you said goodbye.

You told me it was magical. That night we spent together. Do you still remember? It was only weeks ago. But it was only days after that you left, forever. Or what seems like forever. An eternity has passed since you said all those things. All those deep, meaningful things as you hugged me goodbye. … Continue reading The words you whispered as you said goodbye.

And my soul exhaled and I inhaled you: 10 things I want in my next relationship.

As time passes by and we continue on the journey of growth, experiences, and love, we start to learn a lot about who we are, where we are going, and who we want to go there with. Although I am still single ... (the Instagram man was a short-lived, yet beautiful romance...with whom I wish … Continue reading And my soul exhaled and I inhaled you: 10 things I want in my next relationship.

Believing in “God”, coffe shops, & legs.

What in the world makes men believe that approaching a group of women by saying, "God told me to come over here and tell you all how sexy you are..."? Like seriously...how in the HELL does that even make sense? You believe in God, eh? So God is a perverted man who can't handle seeing … Continue reading Believing in “God”, coffe shops, & legs.